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Alternatives to Traditional School for Anxious or Scared Kids

For generations, the brick-and-mortar classroom has been synonymous with education. But in today’s rapidly evolving world, a growing number of parents and educators are questioning whether this one-size-fits-all approach truly serves the diverse needs of all learners. As a result, the landscape of education is undergoing a

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Is Your Child Addicted? Digital Addiction & School Refusal

As parents, we watch our children navigate the ever-evolving digital landscape. While technology offers incredible opportunities, it also presents new challenges, particularly when it comes to digital addiction and school refusal. For many children, the allure of gaming, pornography, and social media can become so powerful that

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Trapped in Underachievement: Helping Gifted Children Who Hate School

Does your gifted child genius suddenly dread the school bell? Does excitement over new challenges morph into tearful mornings and hidden backpacks? Confused? You’re not alone. Gifted children and school refusal: it’s a surprising, yet real, phenomenon. But why? Unlike traditional struggles, giftedness presents unique challenges that

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Find Your Fire: Why Chasing Goals Makes You Glow

(and Not Just from Achievement) Ever wonder why that run makes you feel amazing, finishing a project sparks joy, or even crossing simple errands off your list leaves a warm flush of satisfaction? Turns out, it’s not just about achieving the goal itself – it’s the emotional

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Is school refusal a result of the way they’re parented?

Parenting styles can significantly influence a child’s likelihood of experiencing school refusal. Different parenting styles can either contribute to a child’s sense of security, well-being, and motivation to attend school, or they can inadvertently exacerbate anxieties and increase the risk of school refusal. Here are some connections

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School Refusal: How to get the kids back to class

School refusal, also known as school avoidance, is a phenomenon where students actively avoid attending school due to intense anxiety or other emotional distress and it’s a growing concern in educational settings around the world. The impact of school refusal on students, their families, and the educational

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Seven ways to make sure you don’t raise a narcissist

Seven ways to make sure you don’t raise a narcissist

In a largely unempathetic culture, where violence and narcissism are normalised, what we need to be doing is encouraging kindness and compassion, not just within our families and circles, but in the wider community. No-one wants to raise a mean kid, and sadly many parents don’t recognise

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Watch for these 14 signs of depression and suicide

Watch for these 14 signs of depression and suicide

Major risk factors: Bullying and Cyberbullying Bullying and cyberbullying can profoundly effect a young person’s health and are major risk factors for suicide which is ranked among the top ten causes of death in Western countries. Australia has one of the highest rates of suicide among adolescents

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How to raise a narcissistic child

How to raise a narcissistic child

When a child learns a new skill, they get excited. “Watch me mummy!” They’re adorably self-focused. By about the age of seven, the child starts realistically comparing himself with his peers, and often this can lead to a drop in self-esteem. The child quickly learns that he’s

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How to talk to your kids about porn

How to talk to your kids about porn

Porn is wreaking havoc on body image. Viewers of pornography compare their bodies and genitalia against those in the films and consider their bodies unattractive. In fact, medical experts are blaming porn on the soaring rise of surgeries such as labiaplasty, vulvaplasty and vaginaplasty, as women, depressed

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How to recognise domestic violence

How to recognise domestic violence

People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) display patterns of maladaptive behaviour that can have extremely negative and damaging effects on spouses, children, parents, siblings, friends, colleagues and peers. Abuse that is caused by a person with this disorder is termed Narcissistic Victim Abuse. Quite often the NPD

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How porn is teaching your child how to have sex

How porn is teaching your child how to have sex

Porn sells sex as a fantasy and removes all trace of the beauty of human love, intimacy and affection and it is the main tool teens are using to educate themselves about sex. Boys as young as 11 are accessing porn and from this early age, are

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Why date rapists think No means Yes

Why date rapists think No means Yes

I would like to reiterate that this post is not about man-hating. I speak of the male perpetrator and female victim merely because statistically there are more females raped by males, than the other way around. Further, I am not claiming all narcissists are rapists, nor that

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Nine ways your child can live authentically

Nine ways your child can live authentically

Think about social media and how easy it is to manipulate images (for example, there’s apps that fix skin blemishes, brightens eyes and thins down the face). Add to this a few ‘likes’ from encouraging friends and a teen’s reality is now an illusion. Social theorist Baudrillard

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Scary DV statistics in Australia: Are we worried?

Scary DV statistics in Australia: Are we worried?

Domestic violence and abuse happens to all genders and this needs to be remembered. I’ve met men and women in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships who have all suffered at the hand of an abuser. However, in the majority of abuse, it is male to female and

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